Valentine’s Day as a single mum can heighten the feelings of loneliness that comes with parenting alone.I know, it is just a day, but being surrounded by happy couples at every turn, greeted by the perfect bouquets of roses in every shop, and coming across cards declaring undying love is enough to make any singleton feel like a bag of crap! Whilst feeling lonely is 100% valid, most of these feelings are made worse by the societal pressure that tells us we are not whole until we have found our other half. But that is just not true! And these 10 Empowering affirmations for single mums on valentine’s day will help you to feel whole alone!

It is important as a single mum that you have some tools in place to help build and maintain self-love and self-care so you can truly be the best version of yourself for you and your kids.

These Affirmations for single mums on valentine’s day are an easy and gentle way to reframe your mindset from lack to love and abundance whilst also helping you to build your confidence and help you to find inner peace. That way when holidays such as Valentine’s day come around, they will be a little bit easier to navigate.

So your challenge from me this Valentines day is to make it all about you! If you haven’t already, then I suggest you check out this post on Spending valentine’s day as a single mum!

I want you to go all in on loving yourself and celebrating your incredible strength, beauty and worth as a single mum- Because you are worth it!

How to Use These Affirmations

Morning Ritual:
Starting your day off right with affirmations is a great way to set a positive tone for the rest of the day. I like to incorporate my affirmations into my morning routine as I feel it not only sets me up for the day, but my mind is far more receptive in the mornings. So give it a go!

Journaling:
Writing your affirmations down in a journal helps to reinforce their impact, this works well for me anyway. I also find that when I write them down, my mind continues coming up with more supporting evidence and I tend to then expand on them making them even more powerful.

Mirror Work:
Say your affirmations aloud, confidently while looking in the mirror. This felt really weird when I first tried it, but after a couple of attempts and a few giggles, I actually found it to be the best confidence boost and I could really start to embody them!

Daily Reminders:
Another great way to get these affirmations to stick- literally- is to Post sticky notes around your home or use phone reminders throughout the day to give you that little boost when you are feeling the midday slump.

Empowering, Sexy & Loving Affirmations for Single Mums

I have put together this list of Sexy and empowering affirmations just for you, to help you ignite and reclaim the fierce confidence, radiance, sensuality, and beauty that is already inside of you! 

Whether you feel you need to build up your confidence, get more connected to yourself, or just want to add a touch of romance and sexiness to your life, these Affirmations are a sure way to get you there- and what better day to start than Valentines Day?

“I am radiant, desirable, and full of love.”

Remind yourself of your innate beauty and sensuality, no matter your relationship status.

“I deserve to feel sexy, confident, and adored—by myself first.”

Hone in on the importance of self-appreciation and prioritizing your confidence.

“I am the queen of my own heart, worthy of love and devotion.”

Remember Queen, you are the ruler of your life and your love life.

“I am overflowing with passion and joy, and I radiate that energy to the world.”

This will help you to connect with the passionate, joyful side of yourself.

“I embrace my body, my mind, and my soul as they are—beautiful and powerful.”

A nice reminder of your physical and emotional beauty.

“I am creating a love story with myself, and it’s the most fulfilling one yet.”

There is nothing more wonderful than the feeling of joy and excitement when falling in love with yourself.

“My love is a gift, and I choose who is worthy of receiving it.”

A great reminder of the value of your love, and that it’s not to be given out  lightly.

“I deserve candlelit evenings, soft music, and moments of romance—even if it’s just with me.”

Celebrate you, by creating romance for yourself, on your terms.

“I am unapologetically sexy, bold, and worthy of every good thing in life.”

You have a right to feel bold, sexy, and deserving without guilt!

“I am love, I am worthy, and I am enough—just as I am.”

This is a timeless affirmation of your innate worth and completeness- because you are!

A Love Letter to Yourself This Valentine’s Day

Remember, Valentine’s day doesn’t need to be about external love. The love and respect that  you give to yourself is so much more important- especially as a single mum!

So use these Affirmations for single mums on valentine’s day, as a little love letter to yourself to celebrate and romance YOU this year, because you are so damn worth it- I cannot say that enough!